Pets For Life - Not For Christmas!
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My Tri-colour Rough Collie, Megan with Benji at 6 months old.
Benji came to us at just 6 months old. He was a beautiful, coal-black, cross labrador retriever/setter. We were lucky enough to be the chosen owners for him from our local rescue centre - Second Chance Kennels in Fife. His story is a heartbreaking but all too common one. He was given as a present at Christmas. Two weeks after boxing day, he was booted out to fend for himself - he was only 4 months old.
To animal lovers this is the haunting but preventable reality every year at Christmas time. People, stupid people, continue to give pets to unprepared family and friends - as a suprise present!
Think About This Carefully
If you still think that your cute puppy is the best present to give your unsuspecting family or friend, have a look at the following inventory - this is an essential but very basic list of what a puppy requires when it is introduced into any home. Have you bought any of the following items? No? Then you need to! Or else your surprise gift to your loved ones is going to cost them a hell of a lot of unexpected expense - at the time of year when they can probably least afford it.
- Puppy collar - you have to ensure that the collar is a good fit and good quality - it must also be adjustable to allow for very fast growth.
- Puppy lead/dog lead - this speaks for itself.
- Puppy ID tag.
- Dog bowl for food.
- Dog bowl for water.
- Puppy food - and not just any old cheap can out of the local shop. Puppies require very particular minerals and vitamins. Inappropriate foods will cause puppies diarrhoea and can make them very ill.
- Tick and Flea prevention for puppies.
- Dog crate/cage - to keep the puppy safe while the owners do other things. This has to be of good quality and safety checked to the British Standards - or the equivalent in other countries.
- Puppy/Dog Brush - should be suitable for either a long, medium or short coat.
- Puppy shampoo.
- Puppy/Dog bedding.
- Toys - this is not just a cute addition. Puppy chewing helps with teething and for dental health. Toys are also good training aids. In addition, puppy play is a way that dogs learn.
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A good book/DVD that covers general dog care and health - this is an essential for any prospective dog owner. If you insist on buying a pedigree you will need to include a good book/DVD on the breed chosen.
Behaviour & Doing What Comes Naturally
In addition to all the above equipment that either you or the family/friend will need to buy, is the other implications of having a puppy. Think about the following. How would you cope if it was you who was landed with a puppy that you hadn't expected:
- Puppies take time to train - could you cope with pee and poo on your carpets? If the answer is 'no' then why do you expect your family or friend to accept it? Your wonderful sister might well adore animals. But often people adore them from a distance. They don't have their own pets because they genuinely cannot face cleaning up messes like poo and pee.
- Chewing and destructive behaviour. Puppies learn from their environment and experimenting. How would you cope if your puppy experimented with his sharp little teeth on your new furniture, your lovely afghan or your expensive shoes? Will your family/friend enjoy this?
- How would you cope when puppy vomits up on your carpet - this could even include dead worms after his worming treatment? Would the people you are giving this 'present' to cope?
- Will they be happy with the numerous feeds a young puppy needs daily?
- Can they cope with a disrupted nights sleep because puppy needs to go out to do his business?
- Will the puppy be left on its own every day for hours on end? This scenario is heading straight towards your loved ones having problems with puppy and the adult dog it will become. Separation anxiety can lead to destructive behaviour, attention seeking behaviour, constant barking and aggression. Not to mention physical illness.
If you have even the slightest doubt about one or more of the above - do not buy a puppy!
Most breeds require at the very least one hour's good quality exercise each day. Letting your dog run about your garden - IS NOT exercising your dog.
1. A cute German Shepherd puppy at 6 weeks old. 2. A German Shepherd at just two years old! Spot the difference?
In The Long Term?
The previous inventory is only the essentials to cover the first few weeks in a puppy's new home - how much does this add to the cost of your present? If your response is something along the lines of 'This is all rubbish, a puppy doesn't need half of this stuff' then stop right there - and learn an important life lesson! You obviously have no conception of the work involved - for years to come. More importantly you don't care - either about the people who will be on the receiving end of your surprise or the animal itself.
Try and at least have the decency to spare a poor innocent animal the grief of being booted out of the home or packed off to a shelter wondering what it has done wrong. The family/friend as well, will end up on a guilt trip not to mention the stress of having to try and re-home an animal they didn't want in the first place. Are you willing to accept responsiblity that this is all your fault? If you think I'm over-reacting take a tip. Go onto any web site, anywhere on the planet, and look up abandoned animals at Christmas - the heartbreaking figures speak for themselves!
What of the future? Longer term the family/friend you are giving this 'present' to will also have to consider:
- Vet Bills - not just for emergencies, but for periodic check ups and the puppy's/dog's annual vaccinations against major diseases. Most responsible dog owners also have their dogs neutered or their bitches dressed to avoid any more unwanted puppies coming into the world.
- Longer term again is the conditions that a dog may suffer from. Not only will this cost in vet bills, but could mean drastic changes in their household when looking after a dog that is ill.
- Cute little puppies all too soon become adult dogs. Will your recipient of your present cope with the adult dog? Breeds can vary enormously in temperament. Some breeds need experienced owners to cope with them and train them properly. Do you have the knowledge and expertise to choose the proper breed? Does the recipients of your wonderful surprise have the knowledge and experience to cope with - high energy breeds, working breeds, socialisation, aggression, destructive behaviour, training, obedience, health, food, grooming, exercise etc?
- Did you know that even friendly breeds such as labradors that are not cared for properly can turn very aggressive/difficult/destructive? No? Then why are you buying a dog? I ask this because you obviously have no idea what it takes to care for an animal properly. Anyone with even a minimal amount of knowlege about animals would never consider giving them as a surprise present!
- Do you know your family and friends really well? You better make sure you do! Do you know for instance that their alleged love of animals and their 'gooing' over photos of a puppy, does actually,100%, mean they want one? Now? Without being asked? Without being prepared? You know for a fact that they really don't mind having their whole life changed and turned upside down for the next 8 to 16 years?
If you have any doubts about even one of the above points - don't buy a puppy!
Dog Bites - usually occur due to inexperienced dog owners and/or dogs that are not cared for or trained/supervised/controlled properly. Dogs as young as 1 year
Follow These Rules
If you still insist that buying a puppy is a good idea then do it properly - for everyone's sake follow this one simple rule:
Before you even consider buying a puppy please ask the family or friend if they would like to have a puppy as a present.
If you have the least doubts about them coping with anything I've said before, then please, please don't buy a live puppy - buy them a nice cute, stuffed one instead.
This simple question can save untold heartbreak and stress for people and animals. Animal shelters do a wonderful job. But please don't add to their workload and limited resources by creating situations of unwanted pets, when a simple question can avoid it.
I've also focused this hub on dogs basically because I'm a dog owner and have been for 36 years. But you should follow all this advice for any animal you may be planning to buy as a surprise gift - kittens, small animals, birds, reptiles etc. - all need specific care and owners need specific knowledge to be able to carry out this care properly.
Having the true Christmas Spirit does not just mean buying lovely presents. It means being responsible and sensitive to the real needs of the people you love. It also means opening your heart to the rest of the animal kingdom and doing what is best for them - not what gives your ego a feel good factor!
Please think before you buy! If you want to spend lots of money on animals at Christmas - make a donation to an animal shelter/charity - you might just help an animal that has been abandoned because of thoughtlessness and ignorance! MERRY CHRISTMAS.
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The amount of animals in shelters, foster homes, rescues and all around homeless is staggering! What people also need to understand is that most animals dumped (yes dumped, just like trash) at these shelters are killed within days. A pet may seem like the "perfect" present but really pets are not presents, they are living, breathing beings. You would never just get pregnant and give your newborn to a friend or family as a present, don't do it to an animal.
I watch daily on facebook rescues that are begging and pleading for people to adopt these animals before they are killed. Don't let your "gift" lead to the death of an animal. Give to these shelters and rescues at Christmas. You can even donate the money or items in your friends name as a beautiful gift.
Think, think again and then think again before you buy anyone a pet for Christmas, this includes your own household.
Hi seeker7, what sound advice, people tend to forget about the long term commitment in buying a puppy.
Excellent hub and voting up.
Great advice. In fåct you could say that if you have previously discussed with a friend or family member that you wish to gift them with a puppy then expecting the gift they will prepare for the little visitor which is great. Also dogs are quite different from cats and I can imagine the look on anyone's face if they agreed to a puppy but no one checked the growth of the breed and they wind up with a giant they can ill afford. I've known people in these situations and it's all down hill from there.
Seeker7 I want to thank you a million times for writing this. Even if your excellent article stops only one person from giving a surprise puppy for Christmas, it'll be a real present for all concerned including the pup more than likely.
So sad and so true!
I haven't bean bitten in years and have mostly large and extra large dogs, including Pitbulls.
I think education could salvage many 'relationships' formed by adoptions or buying a dog!
But not every 'seller' or rescue takes the time to do that!
Thank you for a great hub that is very important at this time of year, Seeker7. You've created a very thorough list of expenses and situations that a new puppy owner will face. Owning and caring for a dog is a huge - but very rewarding - undertaking. Unless people are prepared for the commitment and responsibility, they should get a cute stuffed dog instead, as you say!
Up, useful, and interesting article Seeker7. I believe there is a lot of people that jump into buying a dog without realizing how much work it truly is and expenses. As far as giving a puppy as a gift, I believe it is a bad choice, unless someone truly wants one and they are capable of taking care of them. It is nearly like a child at times. You have laid out some very important tips in your article. This is an article that someone needs to pay attention to when thinking about a new pet for Christmas and as a gift as well. Well done.
Good hub and so relative for this time of year.How people can give an animal as a Christmas present is beyond me. When people take on animals for themselves a lot of thought and long term commitment should go into it. We have had a houseful of pets over the years and each and every one was taken on with us knowingly taking on the responsibility of that animal. To decide to give an animal as a present is just plain irresponsible and actually quite thoughtless. As others before me have said, if your hub goes towards stopping one animal ending up homeless in the New Year then that's a very good thing. Well done.
Happy Thanksgiving
Thank you Seeker for putting up this very worthwhile hub. You have made some very good and important points here.
I have known older people that have been given puppies for Christmas. OK its a nice idea when someone needs companionship. But they haven't thought about the cost, I have known a lady go hungry so that she could afford to feed the dog. Not only this but it also needs to be considered if that older person is ABLE to walk the dog. It is vital for a dog to exercise.
The other thing to be considered is the family’s health, bringing a dog into a home where a child suffers with asthma or someone has allergies is not good for anyone.
We see TV ads every year at this time. WHEN will people learn.
Voted up, an extremely important message.
BTW Happy Thanksgiving
This is great advice, any gift that you give someone should not require long-term care unless you are absolutely sure that the person is willing and actually wants the gift. Pets definitely rank up there in high maintenance.
We have two rescued dogs. Both had been horribly abused. It's a crime how some peole treat animals. very well wriiten, informative hub. Up and awesome.
Dogs are really great pet, and I definitely agree with this seeker7. they are absolutely pet for life. 1 vote up and beautiful for this.
Absolutely spot-on! Thank you so much for sharing this vital bit of what should be common sense, a commodity sadly lacking among many people these days.
Voted up across the board (except for 'funny'--that, it is not), and shared "everywhere."
It always angers me at this time of year because of the commercials I see on TV. They always play the sad ones of all the dogs and cats that have been abused that are in need of homes. Bad time of year to broadcast these commercials. Excellent Hub!
Thanks for the beautiful and thoughtful hub!!!
As a dogless person, at this time - every picture of a dog makes me wish I had one.
Oh what a heart rending article and sadly also so true.
You have covered the sensitive subject amazingly.
I have to vote up up and away.
Take care
eddy.
Very touching and so true. It's probably staggering the amount of people who get a dog and take it back. I think you would enjoy reading my article on euthanasia. Check it out. It is called Bittersweet Heart Ache.
Hi Seeker7,
I always feel really sad that we have to remind people that a puppy is for life. Well done for raising such an important issue. Personally, I love animals, especially dogs, but never give in to the temptation of a puppy! I always end up getting suckered when it comes to adult dogs that have been dis guarded, then take them home.
With the exception of my first dog (Which I rescued from drowning) My dogs have always been from a rescue centre. Note my avatar, Tilly, cross border collie who was so damaged and mistreated, she still goes balistic when you try to put a collar on her (not sure what happened there, but hate to see her distressed)She's been with me for six years now! Did I mention previously that we have matching dogs? :)
Very interesting and educative read. I just realised you have to have a budget set aside for a dog. They need a lot and I agree - A Pet is for Life.....not just for Christmas.
Thanks.
Straight forward and very true! Lovely Hub!
Seeker-I can't thank you enough for your Realistic and Straight Forward article about giving animals as pets. I am a big believer that the pet also needs to pick you. Your right that most people don't know the commitment that goes into owning a animal. I have two rescue dogs that I knew I wanted and could handle. I didn't rescue the second one until I became a work at home person which was the reason for my decision. My dogs are in animal heaven here and make me and my family whole.
I don't know how you can get just get rid of a dog and think he/she can fend for themselves. It blows my mind! Wouldn't you have nightmares and wonder what had become of the dog. Did this 'sister' find out that you took the dog in? just curious. To me, treating an animal badly says so much about a person and who they really are. Thanks again for your candor in this important hub.
Seeker 7- I wanted to check out your page because you commented on one of my hubs. Also, I had been doing searches for people that write about pets and animal rescue. I volunteer for a local labrador retriever rescue here in Houston, Texas. I have fostered many and have owned some. I have a white one right now named Emma. She was neglected and abused and I fostered her, adopted her out, and then took her back when the people that adopted her found out she was not "perfect" and wanted to put her down. I could not believe it. I agree with your article. If people would start being more responsible, there would not be so many unwanted dogs (or cats, or other pets for that matter) in the world. Thanks for your article. I hope to write some hubs about animal shelters and rescues here in Texas at some point.
I agree that getting a pet is a personal decision and should be carefully considered and not given as a gift. I rescue instead of breeding, spay and neuter, love my pets!:)
Hello. Just read one of your hubs after your kind comments on one of mine. Thankyou so much for getting this point across so well. Peoples stupidity and disregard for an animals welfare makes my blood boil.I well remember a shocking ad the RSPCA put out many years ago. It was a huge pile of dogs that had been destroyed by them because they were no longer wanted. Maybe if this ad and others like it were put out more often it would at least make morons think twice before buying a cute little puppy or kitten as a toy.
































Frank Atanacio Level 8 Commenter 6 months ago
Good share.. it's sad the way alot of humans treat pets/ dogs.. I know Im running the gun here but I was In Bayamon Puerto Rico this past summer and there were littery hundreds of strays and someone there told me they were gifts... gifts that they get tired of then they open the doors and poof strays.. ..anyhow sorry for going off.. great Hub